The effects of cheating and infidelity when it comes to family matter is deeper than anyone could imagine. If you love your kids, you would think of a better way to save a marriage than making use of your marital problem as an excuse to cheat. Of course, if you look around, you would find someone better than your wife/husband…but if you give it a thought… definitely there would be someone better than you too.
I am not against the fact that not all married couples would survive. But don’t let cheating be the cause of broken marriages…its harder to bear. It would be better if children would see how their parents struggle to make their marriage work…but failed. It would be lighter for them to accept that it is better if they would go on separate ways. It would be more favorable to see their parents living apart but treating each other as good friends than the thought that their father/mother left them for another man/woman.
There is a proper time to look for another,if saving a marriage is too close to impossible…but definitely not during the time that you are living under the same roof, sleeping in the same bed, while your other half believes that your marriage is still struggling to survive. The important thing is that you decide to end up marriage because you both think that its the last and the best thing to do and not because of somebody else.
I am not against the fact that not all married couples would survive. But don’t let cheating be the cause of broken marriages…its harder to bear. It would be better if children would see how their parents struggle to make their marriage work…but failed. It would be lighter for them to accept that it is better if they would go on separate ways. It would be more favorable to see their parents living apart but treating each other as good friends than the thought that their father/mother left them for another man/woman.
There is a proper time to look for another,if saving a marriage is too close to impossible…but definitely not during the time that you are living under the same roof, sleeping in the same bed, while your other half believes that your marriage is still struggling to survive. The important thing is that you decide to end up marriage because you both think that its the last and the best thing to do and not because of somebody else.
I\'m Cath, a 28 years old mother of 2 wonderful daughters. I am a certified WAHM! I am not into parties and night outs, and blogging is my way to connect to the world.
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October 23rd, 2009 at 3:42 pm
Wow! What a thought provoking message. Hope lots of people read this.
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November 4th, 2009 at 10:40 am
Yeah, broken marriage cannot always be prevented. However, the reason behind it matters.
November 5th, 2009 at 1:47 am
this is a very nice post….I agree with cathy…I hope people will read this post…..thanks for the EC dropped!
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April 16th, 2010 at 3:05 am
To save your marriage, both of you has to undergo some changes in your marriage point of view. Effort, patience, and understanding are necessary to make a marriage work. There are so many ways to fix your marriage.
The key to save your marriage is communication in both parties. It takes two to make it work and you cannot do it alone.
.-= Katie from Counseling Divorce´s last blog ..Pre-Marital Counseling =-.
July 11th, 2010 at 2:43 pm
Stunning photos! I appreciate the post so much!