Cathonline

The first question here is, “How do you see others and yourself?” Do you see yourself lesser or greater than others? And are you happy by the way you see both?

Sometimes, one can become so envy that he almost wish that he is someone else because he envy what others have. Sometimes, one can feel angry because of someone who seems to be different from him. And sometimes, one can feel jealous towards a person who holds power, wealth, brain or beauty just because he thinks that he is lesser and simply he is undeserving and not qualified. Are you one of them?

Have you ever been an average student and wish you were someone like your gifted classmate? Have you ever wished you were as rich as you classmate and manage to have the things that he have? Have you ever felt uncomfortable and irritated because you are dealing with people whom you think is lesser than you?You know yourself better and you know if you’ve felt something like this.

It may not be easy to eliminate this kind of feelings but with right perspective, you can lessen this negative attitudes.

One thing you should remember is that as individuals, we are given different characteristics, beliefs, talents and principles. We should learn to respect the way we want others to respect us. Having a perspective that you know that difference is not a hindrance for a good relationship between you and other people no matter the beliefs and status in life, is the key to achieve  a healthy outlook in life.